Ngaloo ndlela abafazi babesoloko bezivumela ukuba bohlwaywe kwaye baqeqeshelwe ukwenza imigilingwane. Ukuba wayeswele ngesondo kunye nokuqala kubudlelwane, yiloo nto kanye awayifumana kumyeni wakhe. Umzimba wakhe otyebileyo uvuselela umyeni wakhe, uvumela yena kunye neqabane lakhe ukuba bafumane inzuzo ephezulu. Ithoyizi isetyenziswa kunye ngaphezu kwesinye, ndiyacinga. Ukubukela okuthandwayo, ubudlelwane obuhle kunye ne-twist phakathi kwesi sibini.
Umphathi wayesazi ukuba luhlobo luni lukanobhala awayemqesha nokuba wayeza kukwazi njani ukumnceda. Ngenxa yoko, wabona isondo eofisini kanye kwidesika yomphathi phakathi kwezixhobo zombane. Njengoko bethetha bobabini emacaleni nasemva.